STEP IN TO MY SHOES

FILL IN MY SHOES

One friend of mine who is a psychologist request me to ask this to you.

1. If u are Joanna will u allow ur bf Friday to be with his exgf in front of you? If no way then why ask Friday if ok lang usap kyo exbf mo?

2. If Friday ask u to help him bringing all his things to his car in front of his exgf will you allow it to happen to you? What will u do? Will u eat ur EGO and do it?

3. What will u do if u read a message from ur bf Friday the he still misses his exgf what u will do? Pls be honest, breakup? Ask his explanation? No need very obvious?

4. What u will do if he honestly say he Friday dated a girl just dinner and watch movies? What will be ur reaction? Ur reaction if he insist it is not a date? ok lang for you?

5. If you assist Friday in funrun and u saw him with a girl with him ignoring u in the finish line while u taking a shot, what will u do? More violent reaction coz u are his wife? Iwanan sya mag isa? Walk out? hiwalayan na? what if Friday say DI NA KITA BABALIKAN TANDAAN MO YAN after funrun? ur reaction?

5. What will u do for a Fridays comment AYAW KO NA UMASA SA WALA when u gave effort to make him happy that day and u make an effort to check u up when ur ok or not? Please be honest deep in ur heart what will be ur reaction?

6. How would u feel if Friday is protecting a girl friend whom already the caused of ur separation before? Same as protecting ur ex husband? Text friend? Facebook friend? Sex friend? Make a rule both of u agree? What is both ok? What is both not ok anymore? ur doing it now.

6. You are strong enough to ask for a cellphone u say bayaran mo nalang monthly, he gave it to u for free, ur not strong enough to ask for money when u sanla ur cp at inaway sya ng brother mo just for that, he doesnt know u need money, he gave 5k to get ur cp, why not strong enough u need 12k form private skul of Cute? Ego always won at you, u allow it to control you. not learning that money is not issue EGO is always an issue.

Psychologist say if what Joanna will do is much worst than what you do then by standard she is normal, a girl will normally react much worst than guys react on those situation.

If Joanna react in defensive mode or lighter action than what you do, either she is lying in front of you? Or pure narccistic protecting her EGO and still insisting its Fridays mistake all along. All Friday do is very small mistake ur emotion make it a BIG issue the result become so BIG out of control already if only the solution is very simple, stop throwing muds at each other, talk when ur calm.

Fridays mistake is very small, in kargador he say to u bahala ka thats a mistake, but the result was HUGE mistake x10 of Friday mistake, for u dont gave ur husband the very basic RESPECT FROM A WIFE, ur blinded by ur EGO, nagyayabang ka sa ex mo o mahal mo padin ex mo, isa dun ang totoong sagot. Still communicating with ur exbf after that is again a mistake, be honest to ur husband, be open if exbf is still txting or calling u, bad if he know without u telling him.

Explanation on u misses ur exhusband is a double lies since u explain it the next day, obviously u misses ur ex husband, he found out again and u never tell him ur purpose right away, be open, tell him everything if u really love him.

Fridays mistake in funrun is telling Sarah she is sexy, small mistake, sana u tell him right away u r jealous, BIG BIG BIG MISTAKE on ignoring ur husband, TOTALLY OUTRIGHT DISRESPECT WHATEVER UR REASON IS, again u never learn how to RESPECT UR HUSBAND, R U BLIND? very bad intention, if u like the guy tell him right away, dont double lie in the CR, double lie in project pearls, since up to now u never go both of u to PP and ur now close as frends. Double disrespect.

Love is pure if for so many years even without a child no issue still u love one another, child is a blessing not a condition on how u love ur husband, same with the wife, AYAW KO NA UMASA SA WALA is a precursor to separation, u want it, u have it, sana harapan nyo nalang pinag usapan, Fridays mistake is nagalit sya agad, he should talk to Joanna personnally, Or if Joanna admit her mistake wait for Friday at home talk to her say genuine sorry, di na sana lumala, pinahaba nyo by batuhan ng putik then sorry nalang next time, maling culture di dapat ganun, if di nyo kaya control EGO nyo stop talking, cool off, palamig muna, pag ok na kita nyo na mali sa isat isa saka kayo mag usap ng harapan.

FILL IN MY SHOES, one character wife or a husband should have, sana lumagay ka sa katayuan ko, if syo nangyari ano gagawin mo? Wag mo gagawin sa asawa mo mga bagay na ayaw mo din gawin sayo ng asawa mo, you have big problems if u have DOUBLE STANDARD, ok lang pag ikaw gumawa, pero pag sayo ginawa nagagalit ka, o mas grabe reaction mo, pag ikaw dapat ok lng wag dapat magalit asawa, then u have EGO problem, then Friday is right all along as the older guy, Maturity can kill your issues, the ability to fight what is wrong and right, the ability to fight ur emotion, the ability that love will still prevail in the end.

In all those BIG FAILURES U MAKE TO FRIDAY that should be a very good test that ur husband really loves u, he gave u a chance, many many chances, he passed with a flying colors, 4 guys yet he forgive u in all of that mistakes, ano pa kailangan mo? FRIDAY THE SAINT? Santo ba need mo? Kahit kipag sex ka sa iba ok lang yun, kahit kipag date ka sa iba ok lang kasi di naman date yun? Meet lang? Eyeball? Kahit ilang beses mo sya bastusin ok lang dapat? Ano ba criteria mo being a good husband? Repeated bastos disrespect mo husband mo dapat ok padin sya? Dapat di sya magagalit? Wala sya karapatan magalit otherwise maghahamon ka na? Lalabas mo na baon mo? Ano ba gusto mo talaga sa isang lalaki?


Goodluck to both of you...